At a wedding the other day, I got talking with some of the guys and a few girls as to which type of girl makes the best wife.
Some of the guys in the group stated that the "wild girls" are better because they have seen it all and want to settle down to a quiet normal life, raise kids and take care of their families.
Others disagreed, saying that "wild girls" never change after marriage. They do try to leave their wild ways behind but eventually succumb and revert to their past life style.
One guy even went as far as saying that he would never marry a "wild girl" saying that whatever you sow, you shall reap.
(Eko sista says, "I beg jo!")
Many of the guys also believe that the so called "quiet girls" are not really quiet and innocent, but that most of them are very good pretenders.
One of the guys offered that many of the so called "quiet girls" are only trying to make the "right" impression and that the minute they have your wedding band on, they start showing you their true character. By then, it will be too late to change course especially when there are children involved.
I think both sides have very good points but whether "wild" or "quiet", both make good wives. It is all up to the individual.
My advice to the guys, appreciate what you have and make the best out of it
See you soon
P.S: Notice the girls sat this one out and just listened to the guys talk.
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