Eko Sista Relationship Survey of the Week?....
Most women who responded, felt that that a nice guy is a generous guy. I feel they came to this conclusion because of the situation of things in our society.
Like I always say though, everyone is entitled to his or her own opinions, ideas and belief, abi?.
But I totally disagree with this belief.
I feel a nice guy is someone who is selfless and caring. A person who will be there for you when you need him. Someone who can give you the kind of attention you need as a woman.
He will respect you as a person and especially, respect your rights and feelings as a woman.
I am not condeming all generous guys to the jerk heap.
My view is that most of these type of men are invariably nasty to women simply because they feel all women need is money.
They donít treat you right, they are never there when you need them, and when you complain, they thrust money in your face to keep you quiets.
My Mr Nice Guy, will go out of his way to make sure you get what you want, if possible help you reconstruct your life if he thinks it is falling apart.
At times, I wonder if all women need is money.
Yes, money is important and necessary for survival but the overiding female need, is attention. And I donít think we can get it from Mr. Generous Guy.
My 2 kobo for this week.