Male Amebos Love Wars ...men's gossiping is as venomous as snakebite.... By Eko Sista January 2002
Love Wars Nagging I for sure feel that most women nag for one or two reasons. Maybe to protect a man or they want to be in control of the manís life. All the same, they say one manís meat is another manís poison.... By Eko Sista August 2001
Make Love...To Me! A woman's instructions to men
Lovemaking is not when a man is satisfied and needs to ask how it was for his lover, No! No! No! Real lovemaking or great sex needs no clarification, believe me you will know how it was if you did the job right the first time.
By JMK May 2001
Pillow Talk A Short Story For Women Only
"Oh god! I'm dead and gone to heaven.
You are the most luscious thing I've ever seen in my life. yes...
God. this is heaven, this is the way to go. Ohhhh... Yes... Touch me there... harder... Ahhhh. I'm going to explode."
"Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yesssss!!!"
By JMK May 2001
Men & Sex Love Wars The other day, I read in the papers that a guy sued his father to court for snatching his wife. I thought to myself, why all this trouble over a woman? Why not just leave them alone? Afterall, there are other women out there...
By Eko Sista May 2001
Chat Up Lines A Discussion For Women Only
- Excuse me... but I couldn't help noticing..are those real?
- Haven't we met before?
- Oh my God! it's Susan is it not?.
- Oh sorry I thought...
- Can I be your slave?
By JMK May 2001
Male Paranoia A Discussion For Women Only ...Now here is where the problems comes in. My relationship with my friend is platonic, and yet when I asked her if I look like the type who has had great sex she said no. Now to not bruise my ego too much. She kindly let me know that on a scale of 1-4, (Pay attention now) by her just looking at me, she gave a three...
As told to JMK April 2001
Women and Sex Love Wars Marriage is a long time investment and two things that keeps a marriage going are sex and money. The most vital of the two, is sex. If there is no money but the couple's sex life is good then the marriage will survive. If the reverse is the case, I believe that the marriage is doomed... By Eko Sista April 2001
Great Sex A Discussion For Women Only Instead of using sex as a release of tension and pent-up emotions, we should see it as a characteristic that cannot be eliminated or pushed under the table. We breathe, we eat, we have sex. Just like we would not eat rotten food or breathe unclean air, we should not have bad sex.... By JMK April 2001
Life A New Poem For Women Only The rest of my LIFE begins today.
I quit holding my breath waiting for the perfect moment.
I will take happiness in little pleasures,
Joy in abstract wonderes,
Peace in meaningful measures.
I celebrate LIFE, my LIFE. By JMK April 2001
What Are The Responsibilities Of A Boyfriend? Love Wars Most women claim they take care of their boyfriends by sleeping with them when the urge arises on the man's side. If I was a guy, and I knew my girlfriend thought this way, I would see someone close to a prostitute. By Eko Sista, April 2001
Trust Love Wars Check this out....She and I had planned to go for the Miss Nigeria grand finale and the show. She dropped a message that she would come to his place after the show. No problem abi? WRONG! This is where the whole agro and wahala began o! By Eko Sista, March 2001
Friends Love Wars A friend is someone we should be able to confide in, somebody we should be able to tell our innermost secrets, somebody who will be there for you when you are having problems. But some of these people we call friends are betrayers. Gba be o! By Eko Sista, March 2001
Can You Love Two People At The Same Time? Anyway sha, I am asking you all this question because a friend of mine just told me she was in love with two different guys. I asked her, how is that posssible? Because I firmly belive that you can only love one person at a time. By Eko Sista, March 2001
Spending Money On Men
Love Wars When she tearfully asked why he was jilting her after all she had done for him, he replied that, he could not marry a woman that was far richer than he was and who slept around with other men. He was positively sure she got the money she spent on him from other men because he knew how much she earned every month. Double Gbosa!......... By Eko Sista, February 2001
The Clique Thing
Love Wars ...Can you imagine, this bobo would travel for two weeks and when he returns, instead of spending time with me, he rushes out to see his friends. Because according to him, they have come a long way, and they are a clique of friends......... By Eko Sista, January 2001
One Pick At The Apple Love Wars In the beginning, she does not mind because she has a relationship. Somewhere along the line though, she falls in love with him. She likes his company, the sex is good and she wants to be with him all the time........ By Eko Sista, January 2001
Wild Girls or Quiet Girls, Which Make The Best Wives? Love Wars ....Some of the guys in the group stated that the "wild girls" are better because they have seen it all and want to settle down to a quiet normal life, raise kids and take care of their families........ By Eko Sista, January 2001
Is he the guy who is generous to a fault in terms of money?, or
Is he a guy who is selfless, caring and is always there for you?
By Eko Sista, December 2000
Is It Okay For Ladies to Hang Out? (Girls Night Out) Love Wars I bet you the last time you told your husband or boyfriend that you were going out with your friends, he had this funny, contorted and scared look on his face. Didn't he?. Almost like he suddenly had to go to the toilet due to a sudden attack of diarrhea...By Eko Sista
Sugar-D's and the Young Nigerian Woman Love Wars Before you ask "Eko Sista, wetin concern you inside", let me remind you that it wasnít always this way and that I feel the economic situation in the country is in large part, responsible for this trend....Also these yeye older men, who have small money, are not helping matters. They go about chasing and luring young girls who are old enough to be their daughters with money....By Eko Sista
Why do Men Cheat? Love Wars In my search for alternate view points, I tried to talk to some of my female friends about it and in general, they seem to accept that it is a way of life with the men and that we should accept it in silent resignation. I hear justifications like "in a man's world, variety is the spice of life" and that "men will be men." In response I say, HORSE PUCKY!.......By Eko Sista
After They Leave, Should Men Have A Say? Love Wars I personally feel the men should be given a chance to get to know their children and at least have a say in their lives. I know it is not going to be easy when you remember all the hurt, betrayal and pain, in fact I know you will feel like killing the man....By Eko Sista
Should Men Tell Us What To Do? Love Wars My friends donít see anything wrong with this phenomenon. In general, they accept it as a way of life. Something they can do nothing about. Something they need to accept to be able to get married with the erroneous belief that challenging the situation could result in being alone...By Eko Sista
Men bashing, A trend? Excuses like tiredness and boredom in a relationship may be gibberish tales with which men excuse their selfish and covetous tendencies, as observed by an aggrieved woman recently. For whatever reason anyone may want to end a relationship it is their prerogative and we must learn to get on with our lives if we have one, should we find ourselves on the receiving end of such moves....by Al Asad
Eyes wide inquiring
Asking for confirmation of a lie
For many have lied to her
And another lashes with that lie
So daily the ritual....A poem by May Q
Looking for Mr. Right Aretha sang who's zooming who, put in more direct language; who's fooling who? If you chose the market to find a husband, of course you are likely to end up with a magician/trickster and you are bloody right he will tell you what you want to hear, and when he has got what he wants he'll be on his way.....by Al-Asad
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